Ein Augenblick...

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Amidst all the clatter and clarion that passes for the norm each morning, noon and night in the news cycle at present, all I want to do tonight is draw breath and let the clamour subside into the background noise of my tinnitus, and say fuck it all for a bit. I bumped into an old mate from work today, quite out of the blue, in the village. I haven't seen him since some time before I retired five years ago, and although he's still only in his early mid-fifties, he reckons on retiring well before he's sixty, as he's paying a third of his salary towards his pension every month, chwarae teg. I hope he get's to have a long and happy retirement on the back of his efforts. As to me, I've found/created a sweet spot in my latest incarnation that I could only have dreamed about [and often did] in my youth, where I can get on with being me: where Jane & I can get on with being us: where the boys are now making their own way and are happy in their travels through life. Not all wine and roses, for sure, but life is at least a good bit less stressful than it was and allows us the freedom to choose what we want to do and address, and when. As the skein unwinds, so the yarn relaxes...

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